Just signed up...what gives with the winks? I only realized after I signed up that this site might be dead (I don't really know yet)....but is a girl able to contact me if I wink her (without having to upgrade)?
'Cuz the way I see it...if I wink her with a preset message and she does the same...there ain't no way we will be gettin' to exchanging numbers or emails. So I'm just wondering if Upgrading and paying is the only way to do so??
If so, it might explain why this place might be dead.
At least one of you has to be a gold member. Whoever is can message someone and they can respond. If neither is a paid member there is nothing to do after you exchange winks unless maybe you run across each other in the blog or forum.